Rebuild your desire
and reconnect with your partner.
For women who fake it, dread it, or avoid it altogether. Who love their partner but can't remember the last time they actually wanted sex. And who've been carrying it in silence, because it's not the kind of thing you can talk about.
Sex feels like a chore. Or it feels like nothing. Or it isn't happening at all.
You love him. You want to want him. But you don't, and pretending you do is exhausting.
You want to want it — but by the time the day is done, sex is the last thing on the list
You lie awake wondering if this is just how it will always be now
You have sex out of obligation and feel hollow afterwards
You go to bed starved of intimacy but too afraid to ask for it
You love your partner but you're starting to worry about how long this can last
You miss the old you — the flirty, playful, radiant version
You've tried to push through it and it hasn't worked
Every time you avoid it, the guilt gets heavier
Because it is.
You're not broken and your desire can come back. You're just stuck in a cycle that nobody ever taught you how to break.
We get it — and we know exactly what you're struggling with.
We'll take you from this. To this.
- Wanting to want sex, but never quite getting there.
- Feeling panic, guilt, or pressure when your partner initiates.
- Wondering if you've lost a part of yourself you might never get back.
- Feeling more like roommates than lovers.
- Missing intimacy, touch, and connection, but not knowing how to fix it.
- Quietly questioning how long the relationship can survive like this.
- Understanding why your desire changed, instead of assuming something is wrong with you.
- Feeling close to your partner again, without pressure or obligation.
- Reconnecting with pleasure, intimacy, and the version of you that used to feel alive.
- Able to talk about sex and desire without fear, guilt, or defensiveness.
- Experiencing intimacy as something you genuinely want again, not something you avoid or endure.
- Confident that this part of your relationship is no longer quietly slipping away.
What's Inside
Turned On In Two Weeks
Created with two of the world's foremost experts in female desire — Dr Lori Brotto and Kate Moyle — and grounded in the frameworks from Penguin Life's bestselling book Turn Yourself On by Billie Quinlan. Includes guided audios from Ferly, the sexual wellness app used by close to one million women worldwide and tools that have supported hundreds of VIP clients.
Lexy Pluthero
Sexologist, Head of Programming at Ferly, founder of female-empowerment brand Freedom, wife, dog mum, and soon to be author
Kate Moyle
Famed psychosexual therapist, host of Sex on the Couch and Sexual Wellness Sessions, best selling author, The Science of Sex
Billie Quinlan
Best selling author of Turn Yourself On, Founder of leading sex therapy app used by 1m+ women, Ferly
Dr Lori Brotto
Leading academic and scientist on female sexual desire, author of best seller, Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Module 1: Why Your Desire Disappeared
Module 2: How Your Body Actually Works
Module 3: What Your Mind Is Doing To Your Desire
Three Tools To Move From Overthinking To Embodied Pleasure
Guided mindfulness practices and journalling prompts designed to cultivate the mind-body awareness that creates the right conditions for arousal and desire to return.

Personalised Desire Mapping

Sexual Beliefs Exercise

Audio-Guided Embodiment Exercises
Erotica that brings your desire
back online.
Feminist, award-winning, and created specifically for women.
Because your desire needs something to fire it up.
"It's been like this for too long now. Will it work for me?"
Real women. Real shifts.
You don't have to figure this out alone anymore.
- One specialist's view
- No 1:1 support
- Apply it alone
- Built with world-leading experts
- Two-week structured programme
- Ability to work 1:1 with Lexy afterwards
- 6 months of talking
- Outdated training on desire
- No structured plan